Days of our lives..

People have lots of thoughts how what should be done to someone who is losing the will...
It's like you, yourself have lost the right to what you want, what you wish to happen to you.
Loved ones being selfish... it is a cruel and evil  way to deal with things, you are in pain yet they dont want to lose you. However when there is that family member that respects your wishes, they pounce on them with no mercy and blame them for the many of horrible things that are happening... "this is why he is like this, because you dont care about him!!!" which in reality is not true, because you if you truly loved and cared for the person, you would not let them suffer though whatever pain it is that they are going through...
Of course this is easier said than done, letting go of someone you have lived with all your life or were extremely close to is the most difficult thing to ever do..
But after a great life lived and a time of pain with no healing, one must ask themselves what is more important: having this person in my life still (physically present)  or having them take their well needed rest and be in peace finally.

The most important thing is to understand that that this should not be a time of sorrow, but a time to rejoice because they are not longer feeling pain, that are finally at peace and whatever their beliefs are or yours are, they are probably in a better place, away from all the pain that man is inflecting upon himself at this current time in the world...

My lesson:
There is no lesson for this one...
be happy to have a had some great people in your life though, and enjoy every moment you send with those who you love the most!
life has it's struggles but it is up to us to stay positive about everything that is thrown at our face...


-Achilles